deconstructing hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution is a bad idea, just ask black people about the state of the black family. I recently posted two youtube clips and one has gotten quite a few views amidst this xtranormal video, Black woman Black man, role playing, hoopla so I feel like id be remiss if i didn’t give more meat to my satire by way of somewhat reasoned serious analysis. I say somewhat because I don’t have stats. Im generalizing. You can sue me for it, but I went to law school.
black people, specifically, black women, have turned human evolution on its face. Not only have they done this, but they act as if it’s a raccoon in the kitchen, almost as if to say wtf are you doing here as if these recently stomped on principles have not been around for a million years. Lemme explain
the 15-25 year old kid chasing the beautiful girl is doing exactly wtf he is supposed to be doing. Its these beautiful girls that are fucking up. The girls are supposed to be going after security and status, but they are not. Their shit is so twisted they are chasing after drug dealers, junky artist type of people, and old ass deviants with a little bit of money looking to get their rocks off on some young tang.
If these pretty chicks wiring wasn’t so jacked up, from a very young age they would be chasing the achievers. Not in sports or playground dozens games, but in school. Our society rewards the educated. For every puffy making a billion, there are 10000 men making 100k. My math could be off but moneywise it may very well be the same amount of dough Puffy is making compared to those 10000 men, but security wise, in our supposed monogamous society, those 10000 men can provide lifetime security for what is theoretically 10000 women while Puff may do it for 3 or 4 at most? so why the fuck is every chick trying to spot out the “future” Puffy by way of intangibles like assertiveness, creativity, or even the way his fucking pants sag off his ass, or trying to spot the future Lebron by how high he can jump, like her stupid 15-20 year old ass could figure out the criterion that lead to that sort of success anyway.
Judge the niggas GPA. His involvement with school sanctioned activities. His ability to actually get along with the teacher, instead of riling her up. Its what white people do. I went to a freaking white high school. The most popular cats also had the best grades. And even if he happened to be an athlete, he still had stellar grades. Makes sense for the chick seeking stability and security in accordance with a million plus years of evolution and in accordance with a monogamous society. Duh? If you want to argue for polygamy maybe it makes sense to seek out “future” Brons and Puffs, but we don’t live in a polygamist society. not to mention, that’s a whole nother post.
Then you have your average chick and ugly chicks saying yo im here date me. And trying to blame the nigga for liking who he likes. Saying shit like check the girls that you like. Are you liking the video hoe chicks? You mean the chicks with nice hip to waste ratios and perky breasts, clear skin and healthy hair. All the indicators of fertility? Ummmm. Yeah. And you label her a video hoe, emphasis on the word hoe, because that’s how her dumb ass be acting, which is the point of this blog post. Nonetheless, it still doesn’t reflect negatively on the men going after those chicks because they are doing what the hell they are supposed to be doing!
Its like if a lion was hunting hyenna on a certain savannah and one day the hyenna was all gone. The ugly chick say look why don’t you boil this saw grass I know you a carnivore and everything but you can get used to it. Na, fuck that. That shit have the lion looking all malnourished and sick and stuff. The lion is going to move to another savannah to find some hyenna. Unfortunately entry on that savannah requires drug dealing, acting thugged out, and half assed pursuit of all manner of pipe dreams. Then theres the other savannah a little further away, where all the hyenas are white. Regardless, the lion gonna get some hyenas. He was never meant to boil sawgrass.
Then you got the chicks saying well like who you like. Should it be based on some formula? Shouldn’t she just go after who gives her that tingly feeling, or whatever the hell the young dumb impressionable and totally blind go by to make there way through life? that’s why I don’t really fuck with the womens movement. Some of that stuff, most of that stuff, in theory is real cool. But I don’t think anyone actually sat around and thought about the long term consequences to the human species.
It used to be that tingly feeling was regulated. Ever read romeo and Juliet? A chick actually going after who she “liked” was such a big deal that that story has been around for ages and is celebrated world wide. Read between the lines however, and you see Juliet couldn’t do shit if her family didn’t want her too. This is because her family cared about the family 200 years into the future before the future family was even born, and they didn’t want descendents of romeo in their family. They thought that shit out. Now you got pops that’s absent and no direction past next month, but again, that’s a whole nother post. Not saying we should go back to dowrys and arranged marriages, but foresight is good.. Really.
These days chicks don’t see past their freaking noses. And it has a cascading effect. cream of the crop chicks which were once there to inspire men to do shit like fly to the moon, now usher them into jail and un-employability. And you got these ugly chicks demanding we eat boiled saw grass in the name of respecting a woman for more than her looks. Which I have no problem with, but mating with you in spite of them? that my friend, goes against every fiber of my being.
This seems like a good departure point. My next post ill analyze my second you tube video and delve into where this deconstruction of human nature has led us.
Keep in mind that if all the nerds were drug dealers with 3.5 gpas, violent criminals (brawlers, robbers, thieves) in their spare time or some kind of athlete, they would get it in much faster. Nerds have too much estrogen in their bodies or not enough testorone. They prefer non-violent conflict resolutions which are not always effective deterrents for malicious behavior. The educated black man who acts like lil wayne without actually being lil wayne does fine in dating. The "nigga who just don't give a fuck", has an easier time than softee-woftee who reads his bible and waters grand-ma's plants before running back to play Final Fantasy 13. Those guys get with fat chicks and its up to them whether they want to get laid or not because its definitely out there for them. Nerds cannot complain about womens mate choices if they are unwilling to do what is necessary to defeat the thugs they compete with. They must be stronger, smarter, more determined and more effective in manifesting wealth and pleasure than their thug counterparts. This is why some nerds succeed in getting laid and others don't.
ReplyDeletei see what you're saying Jealousy. i touched on it a little in the part with the hyennas when i said you have to "act thugged out". i think the problem with that is its hustling ass backwards.
ReplyDeleteif women peacocks all of a sudden started liking scruffly feathers instead of splendid ones then the splendid birds would have to start pretending to not be splendid to mate. which is a problem. even worse, you have scraggly birds which are the standard now. so even if some of the splendid birds that are good in their duplicity manage to get down, you still have a bunch of scragly birds holding up the bird species. which is retarded.
that is the fundamental problem with the Black community. We are the only people in the world in which the social high achievers have to actually dumb down to be attractive to possible mates.
ReplyDeleteI agree! Men need to step it up too and not lower our standards. I think that one of the main reasons these average-to-ugly chicks have such big egos is because they can go online and have an endless supply of guys sending them emails, wanting to friend them and all that bullshit. So then they go into the real world thinking they're Beyonce.
ReplyDeleteThis is the story of my life. In high school I was always ignored by the black women because I made good grades and wasn't athletically inclined. So, by the time I got to college, I turned my back on black women. I started to meet women of other ethnicities (asian, indian, etc.) These women actually gave me a shot and got to know me. So, naturally these are the women I started to pursue. Guess what happens now when I'm out with my non-black woman? The black women hate it. WTF??? My whole life I'm ignored then once I complete college and have a great job, now I'm good enough? Fuck that!!!
ReplyDeleteSo if your arguement is that women should be looking for stability while men follow their biological urges based on visual cues then I would consider it incomplete. Although contested there are schools of thought that subscribe to the sexy sone theory:
ReplyDeletehttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexy_son_hypothesis
Also, those who make biological and evolutionary psychological cases for polyarmoury and/or infedelity (the two are treated as exclusive in this case) adovcate that the ideal evolutionary situation is for a women to find a sexy sperm donor first and transition to a dad that will raise him properly. This school of thought advocates that women might be inclined to cheat and pass the child off as belonging to the "dad" type. So, bitter black dude, these girls are doing exactly what they are supposed to. I agree that in the long run it is counterintuitive. But, using biology as the basis for rules of engagement I would say the status quo is exactly as behavioral/social science + biology would predict it. We chase fertile women and they chase men who would give them sexy sons. Byt the way, I am now an accountant and can relate to the frustrations. But, I don't hold the behavior, as shallow and vapid as it may be, against either party.
I think you raise an interesting point Mike.
ReplyDeleteI'd like to address this sexy son theory because it can give perspective. I can't say I disagree with you, that this is indeed what is happening. i'd like to address a few points with this:
1) as I pointed out in the article, black women are the only women that seem to do this. maybe other races of women have been so socialized that their "nature" has been subdued. that is interesting. but net net black women rejecting socialization or accepting their nature, however one chooses to look at it, has a deleterious effect.
my viewpoint may be patriarchal. i allow and condone men pursuing their "nature" but i don't give women, namely black women, the same latitude. this may be true. to this i will only say when in rome do as romans do. the proof is in the pudding. if most women in society are behaving one way, and you have another group doing the exact opposite, only their group suffers higher morbidity than any other group in almost every catagory? simply put. it;s a problem.
you could argue black men should ignore their nature, but that would make black men the only men to do this. because across the board, in our patriarchal society, men go by things such as looks. and women, in polite society, go by things like status. not looks and swag. this is a black woman issue, and by default, a black people issue.
Interesting view; my qualm with it is that it's unbalanced. You're critiquing women for going after the athletically or artistically talented rather than the intellectually and morally inclined, but you condone men's pursuit of attractive women. So, in your view, it is fine for dudes to go after girls according to their looks. Well, then it would follow that it's cool for girls to go after guys for their looks. Now, let's look at the athletes and rappers-- are they usually more fit, confident and carry themselves with more swag than the dudes who only focus on school/work? Usually, yes, they are. So then, women are doing the same thing men are doing-- going after the more attractive mate who is more likely to bear strong, attractive children, if we want to speak about it from a biological instinct. You must be logically consistent in your expectations and judgment of people. What applies to men also applies to women: the biological instinct to mate with a strong, healthy partner who is thus most likely to bear strong, healthy children. We are also biologically designed to propagate DNA, so I guess monogamy is just a social construct-- an idea that I am coming to terms with most recently. Sigh.
ReplyDeleteNow, I agree that every individual should be connecting with their partner intellectually-- look at their GPA, talk to them, see how they think and where they're going. But this comes down to personal values and taste. I see good-looking muthaphuckas all the time and I don't give a shit; I'm not gonna be attracted to them just cuz they look good. Our conversation will determine if I get attracted to them-- that's where you see how a person's mind works, how they hold themselves... what I like to call, their "flavor." What determines whether we like a person romantically vs. just as a friend? Their flavor, I'd say. Not just what they talk or think about, but HOW they talk and think about it, how that connects with you, and hence, how you both vibe. But we can't force genuine romantic feelings; it's either there or it's not. Crazy shit, this stuff.